How to Choose the Right Wedding Band for Him

It used to be that the bride had her finger decorated with very elaborate wedding bands that consisted of gold and diamonds and was something she would forever show off to the rest of the world as her own personal treasure.

Of course you cannot assume the degree of love just based on the wedding bands however, that was the standard that was used.

On the other hand, the groom's wedding band was akin to a small gold leash that was a simple gold ring that sometimes had an inscription on the inside and over time the ring stopped fitting so great thus over time making it very difficult to remove. 

If the groom wanted elaborate wedding bands he had to have them specially made or pick from a set of some of the most horrendous looking wedding bands anyone has ever seen.  So, the wife got the glamour and the husband got the mini handcuffs.

Over the years a lot about wedding bands has changed and that is a good thing for the husband.
Now wedding band sets are complete sets which include a wide assortment of  ring designs and elements for the groom. 
So now the groom gets to use his imagination when it comes to choosing wedding bands.  With some grooms this is a wonderful thing, with others it could be the biggest mistake they could ever make. 

Make It Coordinate Well

Well coordinated wedding bands don't just match each other but they match the bride and groom as well.  You can get wedding bands made of gold, silver, or platinum and the stones you can have put in the rings are also a wide variety.  Take your time and talk to your jeweler because chances are that the one set you see cast in gold is also available in platinum.

If you are more of a platinum couple, then you will want to explore that option.  Make sure that the statements your rings make are statements you can live with for awhile.  It would be terrible to spend a lot of money on an elaborate groom's ring only to find you can never wear it.  So be smart.


Your wedding is all your personality and your rings should reflect that.  But just remember that the glowing groom's ring you buy now will be the same thing wore throughout everyday life AFTER the honeymoon is over.

Congratulation and ...Cheers!

Wedding 101: Planning the Perfect Wedding Programs

Long after your wedding, when your wedding day is a distant memory, your wedding program will be a treasured keepsake for all your guests. Wedding programs are a gift from the bride and groom to the guests. They provide ample opportunity for the bride and groom to display their unique, individual personalities and the personality of the wedding, be it formal or informal.

You don't have to have a wedding program, of course. But there are certain situations where having one is a good idea. If you have a large wedding with many attendants, the program is recommended because you can list all the attendants' names, along with each attendant's relationship to the bride or groom. Out-of-town guests who may not know the entire wedding party will appreciate the chance to "meet" the attendants via the wedding program.

Another useful purpose for a program is to thank those who have contributed toward making the wedding day special. If friends or family have provided music, photography, flower arrangements or some other service or product to help defray wedding expenses, a mention of the couple's gratitude for this gift in the wedding program is an appropriate way to express thanks to the donor.

What Every Wedding Program Should Include

At a minimum, every program should include:

The wedding date; the time of the wedding need not be included.

The name of the bride and groom; be sure to use the bride's maiden name.

The order of the ceremony: wedding guests will appreciate knowing what's coming next in the wedding and how much longer they need to remain quietly seated.

Members of the bridal party: here, include the names of the officiant; the couple's parents, step-parents, and grandparents in attendance; names of the attendants, best man, and maid or matron of honor.

Beyond those basics, the rest of the wedding program is really up to the bride and groom. Some couples include lyrics to songs sung during the ceremony. Others include a special poem or quotation that is meaningful to the couple. Practical wedding programs include the location of the reception, along with a map or driving directions from the church to the reception.

Wedding programs come in all sorts of shapes and sizes. Some are individual cards, with an elegant border and decorative bow in the colors of the wedding. Other programs are cardstock folded in half or in thirds.

Wedding programs are easy to make yourself. If you or your bridesmaids have experience with paper crafts like rubber stamping or scrapbooking, you can easily create your own unique wedding programs. If you have access to a laser printer, you can print them yourselves. Otherwise, you can easily order programs from your wedding invitation printer.


  

Congratulation and ...Cheers!

Wedding Accessories Checklist

Wedding accessories actually depend on what culture you belong to and what religion you practice. The numerous cultures and religions around the world add to the variety of wedding accessories that abound.

In most American weddings, the race and country of origin of the couple can be influential in the wedding accessories used for the nuptials. The couple to be married must initially agree to use the wedding accessories that each want to use and it is best to coordinate these with each other if they have different beliefs and customs or culture and religion.

Toasting Glasses and Cake Knives

Toasting glasses are wedding accessories that are used at the reception. These are usually made from crystal glass while others use goblets. Most have their names inscribed on the glasses or goblets. The cake knife and cake server used for the cutting of the wedding cake are wedding accessories that can be personalized. Many couples have their names inscribed on the metal knife and server.

Ring Pillow and Flower Girls' Baskets

These wedding accessories are not used by the bride no the groom but by the children who march down the aisle preceding the bride. The ring pillow usually has ribbons and other decoration in the center to which the couple's rings are tied to. Flower girls' baskets are filled with flower petals and some small flower which are strewn on the aisle where the bride treads. These wedding accessories are usually decorated with flower and ribbons coordinated with the bridal motif.

The Veil and Garter

The bridal veil is also among the many wedding accessories that have been around for some time. These wedding accessories come in many different styles dependent on the culture, tradition and preference of the bride. Some brides even opt not to wear a veil these days. The wedding garter is one accessory that is used during the reception. It stays on the thigh of the bride until such time that the groom takes it off and tosses it onto his single male friends. Whosoever catches it is paired with the unmarried female who catches the bouquet.

The Wedding Guestbook

This is where guests sign their names to show that they were present during the nuptials. In many cases, this guestbook complements the motif or the color of the wedding theme.

The many different kinds of wedding accessories are usually chosen by the bride and groom for their wedding. These are kept as heirlooms after the wedding.

How to Give the Best Wedding Toast

Wedding toasts are an enduring tradition and an important part of every wedding reception.

Popular culture, films, television shows, and commercial ads have all emphasized the hilarity that ensues when the best man or woman flubs the wedding toast.

In real life, however, no couple wants their wedding to be remembered for a botched wedding toast, so it is important that the individual giving the toast at the reception take the time to plan their words carefully, well in advance of the reception. Typically, this speech for the wedding toast is the first speech of the wedding reception, and it sets the tone for the rest of the event.  Even if the individual identified as "the best" has not been asked to give a wedding toast, he or she should be prepared to do so.

Be mindful, the best wedding toasts include several important elements.

Introduction

Wedding guests, especially at a large wedding, may not know the wedding party. First, "the best"  should begin by getting the crowd's attention, introducing themselves, explaining their relationship to the couple, and warning the guests that a wedding toast is coming, so they can fill their glasses and be ready for the toast.

Congratulations to the Happy Couple

Next, "the best" should congratulate the couple on their marriage. They have just survived perhaps the most important and momentous event in their lives so far, and they deserve to be congratulated. It is also appropriate at this time for the "the best"  to comment on couple and how they make such the perfect couple.

Personalize the Wedding Toast

The best wedding toasts include a personal touch. Be sure to incorporate a funny story about your experiences with the bride(s) or groom(s) or an anecdote from the bachelor or bachelorette party. This story should not embarrass the couple in any way, and it should not mention old boyfriends, girlfriends or former marriages. "The best" should share a brief reminiscence that is appropriate for all ages – nothing that will cause the couple or their parents or grandparents to cringe.

Go for the Emotion

A wedding is an emotional experience, and  "the best" should not be afraid to pull out the stops and be more emotional than they ordinarily would be in a speech. Appropriate emotional remarks might include a comment about how the couple inspires you to find your true love, or how you hope that your marriage will be as happy as theirs.

Whatever the speech, it is vital that the "the best" write down the wedding toast and rehearse it beforehand. When the toast goes well the bride and groom couple will have a memorable moment they will talk about for the rest of their lives.
  
Congratulation and ...Cheers!

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