Wedding toasts are an enduring tradition and an important part of every wedding reception.Popular culture, films, television shows, and commercial ads have all emphasized the hilarity that ensues when the best man or woman flubs the wedding toast.
In real life, however, no couple wants their wedding to be remembered for a botched wedding toast, so it is important that the individual giving the toast at the reception take the time to plan their words carefully, well in advance of the reception. Typically, this speech for the wedding toast is the first speech of the wedding reception, and it sets the tone for the rest of the event. Even if the individual identified as "the best" has not been asked to give a wedding toast, he or she should be prepared to do so.
Be mindful, the best wedding toasts include several important elements.
Introduction
Wedding guests, especially at a large wedding, may not know the wedding party. First, "the best" should begin by getting the crowd's attention, introducing themselves, explaining their relationship to the couple, and warning the guests that a wedding toast is coming, so they can fill their glasses and be ready for the toast.
Congratulations to the Happy Couple
Next, "the best" should congratulate the couple on their marriage. They have just survived perhaps the most important and momentous event in their lives so far, and they deserve to be congratulated. It is also appropriate at this time for the "the best" to comment on couple and how they make such the perfect couple.
Personalize the Wedding Toast
The best wedding toasts include a personal touch. Be sure to incorporate a funny story about your experiences with the bride(s) or groom(s) or an anecdote from the bachelor or bachelorette party. This story should not embarrass the couple in any way, and it should not mention old boyfriends, girlfriends or former marriages. "The best" should share a brief reminiscence that is appropriate for all ages – nothing that will cause the couple or their parents or grandparents to cringe.
Go for the Emotion
A wedding is an emotional experience, and "the best" should not be afraid to pull out the stops and be more emotional than they ordinarily would be in a speech. Appropriate emotional remarks might include a comment about how the couple inspires you to find your true love, or how you hope that your marriage will be as happy as theirs.
Whatever the speech, it is vital that the "the best" write down the wedding toast and rehearse it beforehand. When the toast goes well the bride and groom couple will have a memorable moment they will talk about for the rest of their lives.
Congratulation and ...Cheers!
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